note to self.

7.22.2016


Don’t waste your time over “friends" who don’t appreciate what you do for them. There are tons of people in the world who will accept your careful thought and love, and who will have no trouble reciprocating it. Don’t let yourself learn to love their every imperfection and strange obsession if they can’t do the same for you. If a friend loves you for who you are, keep them. Make friends with people who aren’t afraid to tell you they love you. Life’s too short for jealousy; force yourself to stop thinking that way. Treasure people who make you happy. If someone makes you unhappy, don’t keep giving them more chances. It isn’t right for people to hurt you. It’s okay to cut people out of your life. You deserve people who care about you as much as you care about them. Be selective but kind. Treat everyone pleasantly but only trust a few. There are people waiting to be discovered, stories waiting to be heard, loving shoulders waiting to be cried on. Don't lose hope.

16 comments :

  1. I couldn't agree more.
    Thank you for posting this, dear. <3

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  2. Great post really agree! Sometimes you have to stop being around people who don't appreciate people who don't appreciate you. There will always be people that will! :)
    www.isabellaschoice.com x

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  3. A perfect post, coming at the perfect moment for me :)You have a truly special talent when it comes to writing, I would love to see you blog more to see more of your work.
    http://whenshewrites-theblog.blogspot.co.uk/

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    1. I definitely plan to be blogging more now. Thank you <3

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  4. Wow, this hit me really hard. Dealing with those who just don't appreciate you that you just love unconditionally and finding those who do but you never truly realize is really, really hard and painful.

    xoxo Morning

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    1. That's so true, but it makes meeting people who actually appreciate you so much better :) xx

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  5. It's so nice to see you blogging again! It had been a while. There is so much meaning to the words you have wrote. One of the best note to self's I have heard. good reminder that if someone isn't in your life for the right reasons it's okay to let them go. I am thinking about this deeply. Thank you! Glad to see you more active.

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    1. I'm glad I'm blogging again too! And thank you so much. <3

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  6. I totally agree with this. Thank you. <3

    // katie grace
    a writer's faith

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  7. Just did an instagram post on this... So true

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